The view was stunning: the entire experience surreal. In a moment that will be forever frozen in
time, I heard words of wisdom that will last a lifetime.
In the beautiful,
rolling Tuscan hills south of Florence in Italy, there is a little town on the
top a hill that looks like it belongs in a fairy tale. The Medieval City of San Gimignano was once
one of the most powerful and wealthy cities in Italy. The walled city can be seen from miles in
every direction, as all medieval cities were elevated for defensive
purposes. It rests on an ancient
Etruscan road, later a Roman Road, used by Peter and Paul, and then it became
one of the most important pilgrims’ roads that led all the way from Canterbury,
England to Rome, the Via Francigena.
In medieval times
rich families would build towers to display their wealth, the more money you
had, the taller the tower. At one point
there were 72 towers in San Gimignano, including two identical twin towers that
the architects of the Twin Towers in New York City studied. Today there are 14 towers remaining. From a distance, the towers rising from the
walled city give the appearance of a fairy tale castle. One of those towers
belongs to a friend of ours, a charismatic, charming man by the name of
Pierluigi Giachi.
A number of years
ago a large group of folks from Lexington traveled to Italy. We covered that exotic country from the
gorgeous lake country in the north to the ruins of Pompeii in the south. The trip had many amazing highlights, but no
one will ever forget visiting a lovely Tuscan winery and meeting
Pierluigi. He charmed the ladies, he
entertained the men, and we left feeling like family. Joyce and I found Pierluigi when we returned
to Italy in 2010 and he welcomed us like long lost friends.
Last month with a
small group of friends we reconnected with Pierluigi. This time he invited us into his home which
resides in a 1400 year old tower in San Gimignano. After socializing on a gorgeous terrace
overlooking the valley below, he invited us to climb to the top of the
tower.
Someone has said,
“Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our
breath away.” This was one of those moments. As I stood on top of the tower, surrounded by
indescribable beauty, listening as my magnanimous friend regaled us with his
story, I recalled the happy experience, the laughter and delight we enjoyed the
first time we met this consummate Italian.
And then I remembered three dear friends who shared that experience with
us years ago: Bob and Marge Team and
Bill Delapp.
I told Pierluigi
how special moments like this were and shared with him that three of our close
friends who were with us on the first trip had passed away. He paused for a moment as he processed my
words. What happened next can only be
described as “Hagia Sophia” (Holy Wisdom).
Looking at me
with tears in his eyes he said, “Ray, we all live under the sky. Every day is a gift. We must “Carpe Diem” –Seize the Day!”
Wow! His profound words are still reverberating
through my mind and heart. I will never
forget what he said and I hope I will incarnate his words into my life each
day. I can seize the day by living a
life of gratitude, generosity, and service.
I can be positive when others are negative. I can be redemptive when others are
judgmental. I can be kind when others
are cruel.
We are all
children of God, we all live under the sky.
I really enjoyed this, Ray! I was fortunate enough to visit Italy back in 1983 when I had a month-long Eurail and copy of "Europe on $20 a Day" in my bag. It was my first and only trip to Europe, and I was surprised to find that Italy was my favorite of all destinations. I spent several days in Florence and Assisi, so I can imagine what a wondrous experience yours was. Your friend's succinct advice is so true and worth stopping to to take it in. Thanks for sharing this today!
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